How to spot first signs of dementia in a parent

Detecting early signs of dementia can be tough since symptoms usually appear gradually and might be confused with regular ageing. Here are some key indicators to watch for: 

• Memory problems are often the first noticeable sign, particularly difficulty remembering recent events or conversations. Your parent may repeat questions, forget appointments, or struggle with recently learned information while retaining older memories clearly.
• Changes in daily functioning become apparent as cognitive abilities decline. Watch for difficulty managing finances, trouble following familiar routes, challenges with planning or organising tasks, and problems with language or finding the right words during conversations. 
• Behavioural and personality changes can be particularly concerning for families. Your parent may become increasingly anxious, confused, fearful, irritable, or suspicious without a clear reason. They might experience sudden mood swings, withdraw from social activities, or show apathy toward previously enjoyed hobbies. 

Additional early indicators 

Physical symptoms may include difficulty with coordination, changes in sleep patterns, or problems with visual perception. Your parent might struggle with familiar tasks like cooking, managing medications, or maintaining personal hygiene. 

Social withdrawal and loss of interest in activities they once enjoyed are common early signs. They may avoid social gatherings, stop participating in hobbies, or seem emotionally flat when interacting with family and friends. 

When to seek help 

If you notice multiple signs persisting over several months, it’s important to consult with healthcare professionals. Early diagnosis allows for better planning, access to treatments that may slow progression, and implementation of safety measures. 

Join our Carers Network 

Carers Network is a welcoming space for carers of people living with dementia to connect, share experiences, and access expert advice. Join us for a relaxed morning tea, meet other local carers, and enjoy supportive conversations in a friendly environment. 

Michelle Beaumont, Dementia Consultant and member of the Dementia Friendly Woollahra lead sessions. Benefits include sharing strategies to support loved ones, focusing on carer wellbeing and accessing professional guidance. 

Don’t ignore concerning changes in your parents’ behaviour or abilities. Early intervention can make a significant difference in managing dementia and supporting both your parent and your family through this journey. 

Dementia Friendly Woollahra is proudly supported by Woollahra Council and facilitated by Holdsworth.