On March 4, 2025, Holdsworth Playgroup hosted an expert toilet training session as part of our services to support families with young children. Dr. Debbie Perkins, a renowned specialist in child development, shared her expertise and practical tips with our attendees. Here’s a recap of the key takeaways and tips from the session.

Developmental milestones

Dr. Perkins highlighted that most children develop control over their bowel movements between 2 and 2½ years. However, every child is unique, and it’s essential to remember that they will progress at their own pace. Bed-wetting is also common, with 10-20% of children experiencing accidents in the first year after becoming dry.

Readiness signs

Before starting toilet training, look for signs that your child is developmentally mature (usually around 18 months). Some indicators include:

• Staying dry for longer periods
• Trying to poo in private (hiding)
• Showing interest in the toilet or potty
• Communicating discomfort when their nappy is wet or soiled

When and how to start

Choose a good time for you and your child to begin toilet training. Summer can be an easier time, but Dr. Perkins emphasised the importance of starting when your child is ready and not feeling pressured. Use rewards and praise for any success, no matter how small, and ignore unsuccessful attempts. Remember that accidents are a normal part of the learning process! Once your child is consistently using the potty or toilet, you can introduce pants, but be prepared for some accidents as your child gets used to this new stage.

Tips for successful toilet training

Create a routine: Establish a consistent routine for toilet training. Encourage your child to sit on the potty or toilet at regular intervals, such as after meals or before bedtime.

Make it fun: Turn toilet training into a fun activity. Use colourful stickers, charts, or even a special “potty song” to make the experience enjoyable for your child.

Use the right equipment: Invest in a child-sized potty or a step stool and seat reducer for the toilet. Ensure your child feels comfortable and secure while using the equipment.

Be patient: Toilet training takes time, and every child learns at their own pace. Stay patient and consistent and celebrate each small success along the way.

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We look forward to continuing to support your family’s journey!